The budget in plain language
In Appendix B of The Synergy Edge, this is expressed as an equation: absorption plus the net of interactions minus decay must be greater than zero. In plain language: a holon survives when the energy it gains (from its environment and its relationships) exceeds the energy it loses (through entropy, friction, and decay).
This applies to everything. A star absorbs hydrogen, fuses it, and releases energy. The synergy of fusion produces more energy than the star loses to radiation. When the hydrogen runs out, the balance tips, and the star dissolves. A company absorbs revenue, spends on operations, and either has margin (synergy) or doesn't. When it stops generating margin, it dissolves. An information system — your selfspace — absorbs subscriptions, spends energy on processing and storage, and produces value through the transformations it performs. The same math.
Synergy vs friction
Synergy
Synergy is when the combined system produces more than the sum of its parts. A hydrogen atom is synergy — the bound state has lower energy than the free proton and electron. A well-designed subscription is synergy — both parties gain more than the cost of maintaining the connection.
Friction
Friction is when interaction consumes more energy than it produces. An API that requires constant maintenance. A meeting that could have been an email. A tool that slows you down more than it helps. Friction is the silent killer of systems — it drains the budget invisibly until the holon can no longer sustain itself.